Making friends is a major part of your experience at university, and often one of the biggest worries for students starting their first year. You’re suddenly in a new environment, surrounded by unfamiliar faces, and trying to find your rhythm both academically and socially. It’s completely normal to feel uncertain about how to meet others or build lasting connections.
One of the things I’m most grateful for during my time at university is the friendships I’ve made. They’ve brought support, laughter, and a true sense of belonging, especially during tougher times.
So, here are my top 5 tips for making friends at university!
1. Join Societies
Joining societies is a great way to meet people and how met so many people from different courses who share similar interests. The University has hundreds of societies – from sports, art, baking, thrifting, languages and so many more – there is something for everyone. Even if you’re unsure about committing long-term, attending a few taster sessions allows you to explore what’s out there and find a group you feel comfortable with. It’s a great way to meet like-minded people in a relaxed, low-pressure setting.
2. Talk to your course mates
Talking to your course mates is one of the easiest ways to start building friendships at university. Since you’re attending the same lectures, working on similar assignments, and navigating the same academic challenges, you already have common ground. Don’t be afraid to start a conversation before or after class, whether it’s asking a question about the reading or chatting about a lecture. You could also suggest forming a study group or grabbing a coffee after seminars to go over notes. These small interactions not only help academically but can grow into lasting friendships built on shared experiences and mutual support.
3. Make the most out of your accommodation
Your accommodation is a great way to build friendships, especially during first year if you’re living in student halls. Sharing a kitchen, lounge, or even just passing each other in the corridor creates everyday opportunities to chat and get to know one another. Some of my favourite memories at university began with something simple, like cooking dinner at the same time as a flatmate or organising a movie night.
4. Step out of your comfort zone
While it’s tempting to stick with what feels familiar, some of the best connections are made when you push yourself to try something new. Whether it’s attending a social event on your own, joining an activity you’ve never done before, or speaking to someone new, stepping outside your comfort zone can be surprisingly rewarding. Some of my closest friendships began in moments where I challenged myself to do something that felt slightly uncomfortable but was completely worth it in the end!
5. Remember everyone is in the same boat!
It’s important to remember that everyone is in the same boat at university, especially during your first year. Everyone is navigating unfamiliar routines, new surroundings and making new friends. Keeping this in mind can ease the pressure and make it easier to take that first step, whether it’s introducing yourself to someone new or joining a conversation. Chances are that the person you’re speaking to is just as eager to connect!
Making friends at university doesn’t happen overnight, but with time, openness, and a willingness to put yourself out there, it becomes easier. Everyone’s journey is different but finding your people, the ones who make the experience fun, supportive, and memorable, has been one of the most rewarding parts of student life.