Like many people I know, I listen to music almost constantly – whether that’s whilst cooking, walking to the shops or on the bus to uni. I tend to use it as a gap-filler. If I’m doing anything where I could be possibly listening to music, I am.
Music as my regulator
Life – especially Uni life can be a lot, but music helps me through most situations. If I’m feeling nervous before going out, I play upbeat songs to get me going. If I’m feeling upset and just want to sit in my feelings, I play my playlist of sad songs. I love music because it feels like there is a song, or an album, or an artist that can cater to any, and every, situation.
Music is grounding. These are real people singing about, largely, their real-life experiences. I mean, you’re always having a better day than Morrissey is. Whatever’s happening, it has happened to Adele too.
Music as connection
Nowadays, it can be difficult to build connections with people. A lot of life is online, and even more of it is on your phone. But music helps us connect with people that are important to us. Being away at uni listening to a song my brother likes makes me feel more connected with him, and home.
One of the greatest things about music is that it’s timeless, giving us a way to find common ground with strangers, and loved ones. Songs that our parents, and grandparents listened to are still well-loved today. My dad and I are big fans of the Smiths and have been to see a tribute band, the Smyths, twice – who are fantastic, by the way! Being able to share this with him has brought us closer together, which I really appreciate.
Music makes community
Something that surprised me about coming to Manchester is the sense of community, even though it’s such a big city – and for me a big part of that is the music here. Some of the biggest bands in British history were born in Manchester. Oasis, the Smiths, the Stone Roses and New Order all found their place in the chaos of the Manchester music scene.
And thankfully for me, the music scene in Manchester remains alive and kicking. Clubs, small gigs and concerts keep the city’s music alive, bringing people together and connecting them in a way that isn’t demanding or inaccessible.
Music is made for everyone – go out, explore and enjoy!